So I haven't bothered updating this since I went to Chicago as I actually haven't left London for an entire MONTH. Longest time since I've been here! However I have been nagged by some losers to update people on my life, so here is my life update. Quick warning; it's not been particularly exciting, therefore this post won't be particularly exciting..
Right after we got back from Chicago Jenny had a friend from back in Newcastle come to stay, so showed her the sights of London.. in about an afternoon. I do like London as a place to go to uni but there really isn't as much going on here for daytime fun as in the huge cities.. still, the weather was beautiful that week and London is very pretty just to wander around, especially as there are too many parks to even know the names. After caving in to a night at Frogs which was rammed half full of models, half full of Chinese people gangnaming, Ryan arrived for the weekend to celebrate my 21st! We now just refer to Ryan as omnipresent as it seems like he's always over to visit, it's got to the point where we don't meet him at the coach station anymore, he just turns up at the door.
We spent the evening at a bonfire then got caught in a fucking BLIZZARD walking home. The weather has been surprisingly non-stereotypical of Canada so far, literally about three rainy days, lots of sun and maybe two mornings of snow that have melted by midday.. yet we manage to get caught out at 1am in some freak snowstorm. Then obviously my shit house (more about that later) wouldn't open with my shit key, and with all my housemates being away we were on the verge of throwing Ryan on the roof to batter through a window, but managed to batter the door open instead. Great success.
Tash arrived the next day and we all got ready for my celebrations! I'd completely forgotten how to get ready for a big night out, back in Leeds we all fake tan, wear a fair amount of make-up, use hair extensions and whack out a little dress and pair of big heels. Yet since being here, all of these things have remained untouched in the back of my closet, purely because I just haven't found the need to do anything like that when we go on nights out, everything just seems much more casual which I actually like, much less hassle. Feeling suitably Essex'd up, I basically just got hammered drunk and went to one of the only clubs with music I like in London called Cobra. I'd been warned to get guestlist and get down early, and since people predrink over here at 7, 10.30 would have been late, but something about being almost 21 and having had too many shots made me cocky..
So I stroll up verging on midnight, demanding that I'm on guestlist with 20 people. "Hello my name is Cait and it's my birthday and I'm on guestlist" "Name?" "C....A....I...T" "You're not on the list." I actually gave her the filthiest look. "Yes I am, and I'm 21." (I wasn't) "Did you submit guestlist online or did you speak to somebody?" "....I spoke to somebody." "You did?" "Yes, I spoke to Paul." "Paul?! Oh I'm sorry, go right in the queue". First of all, what the FUCK. Second of all, who the FUCK do I think I am? It gets worse. I decided I wasn't going to pay entry either. Stroll up to the ticket lady, look at her, then walk away. "Excuse me you didn't pay" "I did, look in my purse" so I hold open my purse, empty because I'm holding my $20 in my hand, quite blatantly. "So where's your ticket then?" "You tell me" Big black bodyguard looks at me like I'm going to get killed. "Sure you paid?" "Yeees" "Alrighty then". I am the luckiest most idiotic creature alive. Aaaannyway it was a suitably wonderful and drunken and shameful night to celebrate joining the OAP club, topped off with breakfast out the next day and opening early birthday presents of English Galaxy, Heinz Soup and Robinson's squash from Ryan - nobody except study abroad friends will understand how exciting this was.
My actual 21st was strange.. I'd been feeling apprehensive all week not knowing how it was going to feel or be. I'd been getting loads of parcels and cards in the post over the few weeks leading up to it, but since my family's birthdays are all around mine, it was a time I'd usually spend at home for the weekend, and it was the first time since I've been here I started to feel a little homesick. Despite having class at 9.30 I actually had the best day! The gifts and cards from home, the weather being the most gorgeous it's been on my birthday since I can ever remember and having all my friends together in the evening made it a lot less weird than I'd expected. Different, but then again I am in a different continent!
The worst part about this month has hands down been the worst goodbye to my favourite foul-mouthed Aussie. Unfortunately most of the exchanges only come for a semester, and since we know a lot of them it's going to be so strange not seeing as many familiar faces around campus and going on nights out.. in particular Lucy! We spent an emotional little goodbye night drinking milkshakes before having drinks in an Irish bar to say the real goodbyes with everyone :( she's off travelling as we're all studying and I am beyond jealous, and am determined to make it over to Australia to see her. Being here has given me a horrific case of the travelling bug and now all I want to do is see everywhere!
But only a few more nights out, nights spent watching Rick McGhie and Christmassy evenings spent at the light switch on were allowed before finals began. I worked out this term is 16 whole weeks long. That is INSANE. At home we're only there for 11, one of which is Freshers so absolutely does not count, and we have no exams in those 11 weeks. And then an entire month off for Christmas. When I finish in a week, I'll have done 8 exams and two assignments, and I have the smallest workload out of anyone I know, only having taken three classes this semester - how the Canadians do this for four years I'll never know. And then we get just over two weeks off before starting back again! However.. I have just worked out that because I put effort into my other tests, I've already passed two of my classes without even sitting my final two exams.. and for the one last Saturday I only needed 10%. Study abroad is a joke and I urge anybody ever to do it because I literally just get to play 90% of the time yet for some reason it looks amazing to employers.
So since my tiny brain finally worked that pass/fail literally means I just have to pass.. to not fail.. I have become ridiculously distracted with planning my Christmas travels! I'm feeling more Christmassy than ever, with my shopping all done, a real tree in the living room and Christmas songs and Christmas Tim Hortons cups everywhere you go.
Steph arrives on Sunday after almost 7 months without not seeing each other and I cannot wait to see her.. aaaand luckily for me she's staying for 5 weeks! We leave with everyone else for Toronto next Thursday, before spending a week in Montreal over Christmas, 6 days in NYC for New Years and a final 2 days in Toronto before finally coming home, then I get the treat of having a snuggle partner in my room for another two more weeks. I have already been disgustingly nerdy writing packing lists, making documents with all the amazing events going on in the cities and trying to figure out how I'm going to cope with Times Square on NYE.. 8 hours in a crowd of a million people, faaaack I'm EXCITED. But possibly my favourite part about this whole trip.. I get to see Al in New York as a little bit of home! It's looking like I'm going to be the only one over here who won't be going home or seeing their family at all during the year abroad, which is a little daunting, but I think seeing a friend who is as sarcastic and hideous as I am will make me realise nothing's changed back home.
England, miss ya loads, hope everyone is having a wonderful Christmas time and feeling festive and great and happy and blahhh, and hopefully when my life becomes less boring, so will my blogs!
Oh and about my shit house - it's falling apart and we have new pet mice and I can't lock/open the doors.. that's about it. And someone stole chocolate from me in the library and I still haven't got over it. AND my Mum sent us advent calendars and the fat motherfuckers at the border have definitely eaten them, the bastards. OH and the new Twilight film is shit, what the fuck happened there? If you want to see a really good film, go see Flight, I almost cried it was so embarrassing. Don't watch it if you're scared of flying though because you WILL cry. Now I'm just talking shit.